There is a revolution coming….

 

“A revolution only lasts fifteen years, a period which coincides with the effectiveness of a generation. Jose Ortega y Gasset.

“There is a revolution coming. It will not be like revolutions of the past. It will originate with the individual and with culture, and it will change the political structure only as its final act. It will not require violence to succeed, and it cannot be successfully resisted by violence.”  Charles A. Reich

And to you I say,  welcome to the mobile revolution, we are in the inchoate stages of the revolution, so join now.

In one of my previous blog post I commented:

The best gift you can give yourself is the gift of going after your dream instead of living someone else’s’ dream.

Go Live the dream, go on a journey, the rewards will outweigh any challenge incurred in the process, and those challenges are the journey’s rewards.

I have gotten quite a number of e-mails, public and non public twitter and facebook messages alike, I have read the post on the Ansca forum. I have been touched. I am the one, who at the end of the day have to truly thank you for believing in me, and my company and product.

But I don’t want to sound trite, repetitious, boring or sound like a scratched LP (for those of you who still remember what those were), and tell you to go on a journey, live your dream, quote Steve, and others, and tell you to start your own company, but what I will tell you something I learned a while still a young lad.

Having left Nicaragua in 1978, during the height of the civil war, being uprooted from my country and landing in Miami, just like thousands of families before mine, seeking refuge, I learned two valuable lesson from my father.

Not knowing what the true meaning of it all was, the war, a new country, a new language, new surroundings, etc… And not understanding any impact this would have on me, one day talking about what was happening with the old man, I was asking him questions in order to understand what it all meant.

It was a long and painful chat with my dad that day, and he summed up the events quite nicely. He said, and it has forever been edge in my brain, I learned that

“They can take everything away from you, except what is between your ears, as long as you have that, you will always land in your two feet”.

Now I don’t want you to get the wrong impression, this is not about me, it is about you. As long as you are able to put thoughts together,  think and learn, why are you still not going after your dream? What do you have to lose?

The other favorite quotation from my dad was best said to me not too long ago.  I was frustrated about work at a big Fortune 500 company, and where I was headed in my career. He happened to have been visiting me in Silicon Valley and he saw that I was very frustrated. Nostrils flaring and a vein on my forehead particularly pulsing. He knew something was off-keel.

He asked me what was wrong, and why was I frustrated. I gave him a very curt answer about my current work conditions, career, and the not so bleak future and that I needed to make some decisions and that I was upset because I was not in control.

He was in his late 70’s. He looked at me, and put his hand on my shoulder, and he asked me if I remember my visits to Guanacastillo, his cotton farm,  the cotton farm where I grew up, and obviously I said of course I do. He then asked me if I remember the color of the cotton fields, and I do,  and I said white. He said, not all the time, you remember white, but there long periods of time when it was brown, and during the drought periods, there were, if at all, maybe a single cotton tree standing up. He then looked at me and said the other thing I learned,

You are in control of your own destiny. When I was working the farm fields of Guanacastillo, I was at the mercy of the weather. Why are you so frustrated, take control, at least, you don’t have the weather to deal with which is unpredictable. You can control and shape your own destiny and future.

Why do I share this experience with you? because only you, not me, not the weather, only you can take control of your destiny and shape your own future. Nobody is going to do that but you.

I have never returned to Nicaragua since 1979. Why? because for me, I hold the past as a memory, not something I long for. I look for whats ahead, I look for tomorrow and what tomorrow brings, and, how I can shape my future and contribute to society and to individuals.

As humans, we put a man on the moon, we have found cures to some of the world’s worst diseases and much more, in short, as humans, anything is possible. And as individuals, the contributions we make to humanity, can be so rewarding that it is amazing.

But today I thank all of you for being a part of my dream. For letting me live it, experience it and share it with you.

Now, go, join the revolution, take control, shape your future and let me be part of your dream.

Carlos.

 

 

 

The Top Commandment

Don’t be afraid to fail. It is ok to fail. It is actually good that you fail. Failure is an option. Failure is also commonly known as fear, and “We have more to fear than fear itself”, as best quipped by FDR in 1933.

Fear and the thought of  Failure, comes from the expectations set upon us by our society by the one who took second placed. And nobody remembers who lost any Super Bowl. Nobody remembers who came in second. There are no awards for second place. Everyone remembers a winner.

It is in our nature to be winners, to come in first place. First place is best captured by George Patton, the General of WWII during a speech he said to the 6th Armored division: “America loves a winner and will not tolerate a loser. Americans play to win all the time. I wouldn’t give a hoot in Hell for a man who lost and laughed.” Another famous person who captures the essence of winning, is none other than Vince Lombardi.  He took the Packers to five Super Bowls, winning two, and forever his name will be associated with the definition of a “Winner”.

Vince Lombardi said in an speech, “There is no room for second place. There is only one place in my game and that is first place.” And am sure we are surrounded by more quotes than I can put in a blog. Even our former governor, former Mr. Universe, Arnold Schwarzenegger, has his Six Secrets to Success. And he put the fear of fear in his competitors.

So why, in a few words, go from great quotes from amazing individuals on Winning and being Number 1, to embracing failure?

Because entrepreneurship is all about the constant living with this fear of failure, which paralyzes us, which demotivates us, makes us un-safe, which makes us retreat and makes us weak and which keeps us doing the same onerous task day in and day out. But when you peel all the layers of fear, it is not failure we are afraid of, it is the fear of the unknown. That unknown is what we are afraid of and it is our subconscious mind acting up which makes us believe it is failure what we are afraid of.

But let me just say that, that unknown, that uncharted territory, that “black closet”, “dark alley”, is what makes entrepreneurship the essence of the American Dream. Not knowing what is going to happen, how, when, and where, are things that we are faced with and challenged each day of our entrepreneur life. Running a business is complex. There is no school on how to run a business (Facebook 101) and no classes on how to react to situations that may arise out of Murphy’s law. (iPadGate).

And why do I say not to be afraid of failure? and that failure is an option? Well, at least for me,  when I reach 80 years of age, I rather be resting on a hammock over looking the ocean with a smile on my face because I will forever know that “I tried it” instead of asking myself “what if….”. And I hope that you can learn, that the best gift you can give yourself is the gift of going after your dream instead of living someone else’s’ dream. Just like the late Jobs said in his Stanford speech “Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people’s thinking.”

It is after all, the will, the perseverance, the determination, the chutzpa, the constant challenge, and of those who are not afraid fail, which makes a great entrepreneur.

So stop being afraid of failure. Go start something. You never know. You may like it, and it will forever put a smile in your face.

Thoughts? Questions? Comments?

Carlos.